Showing posts with label anorexia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anorexia. Show all posts

Sunday, 26 September 2021

A Death in the Family



Sadly Nigel’s sister, Sandy, died last week.

It started with a fall and ended with pneumonia.  Sandy was vulnerable following many years of anorexia.

Nigel and her mother were at Sandy’s bedside at the end as she passed on peacefully.

We are all full of regret that she never completely escaped the warped kingdom of anorexia.

However, her Christian belief and ours is for an afterlife and it pleases us to picture her, (like Pilgrim, in the book by John Bunyan), casting aside her earthly burdens and bounding on eager feet over springy green turf towards her Heavenly Father.

There have also been blessings for those of us left behind - as the email messages and cards roll in we see how many friends and supporters she had and how many people valued her voluntary work for the Royal Victoria Infirmary in Newcastle, where she had previously been on the board of governors, putting the patient’s point of view, piloting new projects and writing clear reports.

Fittingly, it was in the RVI to which she had given her time and energy that she died. 

Even with her life limited by severe illness Sandy had achieved so much that was worthwhile and she will be missed by many.

Which we shall try to see as a comfort.


The photo above shows Sandy with her mother when still in her twenties.

Sunday, 14 July 2019

ITALY TRIP - Run with the hare and hunt with the hounds

We spent our last morning in Ravenna at MAR, the Modern Art Museum. There  was a retrospective of the photographs of Oliviero Toscani.   He takes high quality, undeniably beautiful photos often featuring alluring models of both sexes in a state of undress.  

However, he has stopped people in their tracks with some of his work. He has managed to turn commercial advertising campaigns into social commentary.  For instance, 'United Colours of Benetton' showed jolly pics of happy tots from all races dressed in bright jumpers.

But then they got a bit in your face. His picture of a new born baby, still with its umbilical cord and red and wrinkled made the point that it was hard to know which race it came from. All new babies look the same.

Another famous example of his campaigning were shots that he released during Milan fashion week of a naked anorexic model. He was drawing attention to the way in which the fashion world drove young women to become thinner and thinner.

However, he has earned his living as a commercial photographer.  Some of his campaigns were provocative just to get a particular product noticed rather than for any social benefit, such as his picture of a young woman clad in very skimpy hot pants by Jesus Jeans with the logo “If you love me follow me.” 

Oliviero Toscani is definitely a man who has managed to run with the hare and hunt with the hounds.