You would have thought that walking ten miles would be the tough part of the day, but no, the difficult bit was when we reached Carlisle and lost one another. For two hours.
A green family who likes foraging, hiking and history (My Moon-Shot)
Tuesday, 5 July 2022
Hadrian's Wall - Day 2 - Easton to Carlisle
You would have thought that walking ten miles would be the tough part of the day, but no, the difficult bit was when we reached Carlisle and lost one another. For two hours.
Monday, 4 July 2022
Hadrian's Wall, Day 1- Bowness on Solway
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| Nigel at Euston with another famous explorer - Matthew Flinders |
We had to take a taxi to Euston. The journey of a thousand miles may start with the first step, but this was quite an expensive first step.
In Carlisle, the transport theme developed. We were to catch a local bus for local people which ran from Carlisle to Bowness only twice a day. It was teetering on the brink of being axed.
We had to run for the bus stands, only to discover they were not marked with the numbers of the services which stopped there.
A kindly woman called Fenella appraised our walking gear, correctly guessed our destination and took us under her wing.
Which was just as well, because when the bus finally arrived, it had no number on the front - luckily for us, Fenella recognised the driver, otherwise we might still be standing in Carlisle!
Friday, 24 June 2022
The right earrings for Hadrian's Wall
Monday, 20 June 2022
Two people, ten days, one rucksack
For years it has been my dream to walk the length of Hadrian’s Wall until various musculo-skeletal issues made me think it was off the agenda for ever.
However, foot surgery, Pilates lessons and my excellent
osteopath Claire have made me think I could do it.
Nigel is a hero for agreeing to carry most of our crap. But I don’t want to break his back, so we
have been giving a lot of thought to how to minimise the load.
For the first time, we went to an outdoors store and bought
lightweight clothing which would dry easily.
Our toilet bag contains only toothbrushes, toothpaste and
anti-perspirant. Instead of sunglasses,
we have filters that clip onto our specs. We have downloaded our reading books to
our phones.
My only luxury is a tiny watercolour pad and paintbox.
Pascoe, who undertakes v. challenging expeditions felt we
still were not taking it all seriously enough – we should saw the handles off
our toothbrushes to shed a gram or two.
I had a flashback to a long walk in the Lake District when
Pascoe was just a little boy. He was
weeping with tiredness, which was not like him.
To help, I took his rucksack from him.
It was unexpectedly heavy. On
investigation, it appeared that at some point he had put a full-size brick in
there, and had forgotten to take it out again.
Oh how times have changed!
Friday, 10 June 2022
Cuckoos and Nightjars
Every couple of years we camp with a dozen or so old university friends. I can’t tell you how much I enjoy it. This year we had found Woodfire Camping a very green and lovely site in the South Downs national park.
However, after many bureaucratic hitches, we heard our
Ukrainian guests were finally about to arrive.
With a heavy heart, I warned our chums that we were unlikely
to come camping. But then we discovered
that our guests’ flight was scheduled for the day after our trip –
we could go after all.
Being woken by a chorus of cuckoos, going for walks in the
verdant woods, cooking and eating together round the campfire at night, hearing
the chirr of nightjars as we stumbled to the composting toilet in the dark, all
of these things refreshed and calmed us.
So if there was ever a moment when we were ready to have an
upheaval in our lives, then this was it!
Photo courtesy of Richard Allen
Thursday, 26 May 2022
Sh*t and Twigs
When we first introduced doves to the dovecote on the end of our house, they amused us with their amateurish nest-building.
Doves are poor at estimating the width of an opening. Again and again, the twigs they picked up failed to fit through the little doorways. A mound of twigs gathered on the ground beneath.
And then, when they did get the twigs into the nest holes, our
doves failed to display any artistry.
Nigel was having one of his period clean-outs of the dovecote
when I saw what he was doing and berated him –
‘You’ve just pulled a whole nest out!’
He brandished what was in his hand: ‘But it’s nothing but sh*t
and twigs!’
‘That’s exactly it! Doves
make a loose nest of twigs.’ And then
sh*t on it, apparently.
Earlier this year, the dove situation was looking a bleak.
Each night, fewer doves were roosting in the dovecote.
A well-fed sparrowhawk had been picking them off, leaving only a
swirl of white downy feathers.
Those who remained preferred to roost further down the street, under the solar panels of our friends, Claire and Bruce.
However, to our surprise, new doves have found their way to us
this spring – including one with a ring that shows it is from elsewhere and
another which looks as if it has a fantail parent.
We look at the ground beneath our dovecote and vow we have never
been so pleased to see a heap of sh*t and twigs.
Friday, 20 May 2022
Frog chorus
We have just enjoyed a weekend of what I can only call audio tourism.
Work took Nigel to the old university city of Leuven, and I joined him there. After the regular hum of several hours of train travel, arriving was a treat for the ears.
In little leafy parks we heard spring birdsong. I noted how familiar favourites like blackbirds and robins had a slightly different call, like a different accent.
Leuven was also hosting a festival of sound installations called Hear Here. The most memorable was in a glasshouse in the botanic gardens - a set of 250 tiny speakers suspended from the ceiling emitted the sound of bees coming and going and one could immerse oneself in the buzz of the hive. On listeners’ faces were looks of
wonder.
But the best sounds of all were at the Abbey Park on the outskirts of the city. Standing by a reed bed on the edge of a lake we were startled by the bright sudden burst of notes which heralded the Cetti's warbler. A bird which I had never seen before, and, as it remained hidden, still haven't!
Also in the reeds were a bunch of very enthusiastic frogs. Unlike the chaps in my pond at home who sound merely as if they are suffering from dyspepsia, these frogs were loud and ebullient, like the party one hears in the distance and longs to be invited to.
Coming home now, my ears
feel as if they have had a work-out – they are all nice and ready to pick up
the calls of the swifts, newly arrived in St Albans.
Thursday, 12 May 2022
Litter-picking Lout
A week or so ago, I joined a small litter-picking team from our church.
Litter-picking
is such a simple and rewarding way to do good in the community – or so we
thought.
Near
the busy local shops, we began to collect up discarded food wrappers and
cigarette butts.
On
a bench sat a tall woman, restraining two dogs on leashes while talking loudly
into her phone. Beside her was her can
of beer. As we scooped up crisp packets,
her conversation continued at full volume, until finally it seemed that the
other person was approaching and the woman stood to go and meet them.
She
left her beer can on the bench.
I
tutted and went to put it in Gavin’s collecting bag.
‘Wait.
Hasn’t that still got beer in it? She might come back.’
But
I was impatient. ‘She’s gone. I’ll just empty it into the flower bed.’
There
was actually rather a lot of beer in there.
Perhaps Gavin had a point. Too
late now.
It
was only seconds after I had put the can in Gavin’s bag that we heard the
now-familiar loud voice. ‘Hey – who’s had my beer?’
We
looked guiltily at the collection bag, only to note that it was, in fact,
transparent. If the woman with the dogs wanted
to take umbrage, it was very clear who had stolen her beer.
Rapidly,
we shifted our litter picking activities round the corner.
So
as a direct result of our do-gooding, it’s possible that members of our church
are now known in the community as a bunch of thieves who would do anything for
a can of beer.
Photo by Rasa
Kasparaviciene on Unsplash
Thursday, 5 May 2022
Green Church
Covid hit our church hard. Several much loved older people died, afflicted by the isolation and delayed medical treatment of Lockdown rather than the Covid virus itself. Some of the members who had been most creative and most generous with their time moved away. One or two developed long-term illnesses. And then our vicar retired.
So coming out of Covid has felt
like the aftermath of a nasty fall. Gingerly we have picked ourselves up and
tested each limb for strains and bruises.
However, there is now a very
tangible sign of new life – the creation of a green space in front of our
church. A team, led with great energy by Celia, has packed the modest plot with
flowers to attract bees and a wet area for amphibians. Above, there are swift
boxes and a swift call playing to attract the birds to nest, (my own
contribution). On either side are benches for people to sit and appreciate it
all.
The fact that we have
accomplished this long-awaited project now in the spring, and that it will
blossom and flourish through the summer must be a good sign.
So by the time winter chill creeps
in once more, the plants will have become established and our new vicar will
have taken up his post.
For more about our environmentally-aware church http://www.saint-lukes.co.uk/
Thursday, 28 April 2022
Sharing our nest
Nigel and I work from home in
different rooms. He is at the back of
the house, I the front. Both of us have
been suffering from persistent tapping at the window. Tiny, hormonally crazed blue tits have been
defending their territories against their own reflections. They have been showing an interest in the
nesting boxes fastened in the sheltered nooks of our walls.
On the gable end of our house, in the
dove cote, one dove had been sitting on an egg for what seemed like forever and
a day. We had assumed the egg was addled
and would never hatch, but she had faith and continued to brood the egg. Recently, her patience was rewarded by a
magnificent young squab.
I would call her ‘plucky’ if ‘plucky’
did not seem rather an insensitive word to apply to a bird.
The only nest we don’t like to see is
the magpie nest in a tree which borders our property – the parents rob the
nests of songbirds to feed their young. However,
this year, a crow with a single white feather in its tail has been bullying the
magpies and they appear to have abandoned their nest.
Amid all the home-building around us,
we have thought about sharing our own nest.
Several weeks ago, we signed up to the Homes for Ukraine scheme and are
waiting now to see if our guests are granted visas. The process seems to be taking forever and a
day, but we must keep hoping, just like our plucky dove.
Tuesday, 19 April 2022
Fit for foraging
Growing up in Cornwall, my parents didn’t like my foraging habits.
Entranced by Richard Mabey’s ‘Food for
free’ I would gather wild hazelnuts, chestnuts and blackberries.
However, Mum and Dad drew the line at
leaves. When I plucked sorrel from the
hedgerow they would grow concerned I might make a mistake and poison myself.
This Easter Nigel and I rented a house
in Falmouth and stayed there with Pascoe, Perran and Carenza and friends Jamie
and Hannah. We visited my parents, but they
no longer have a say in what I pick and eat.
There is no more fragrant time in the
Cornish hedgerows than April, and all of it was available to us to gather. Each day, we came back with packets of
greenery in our rucksacks. Three-cornered
leeks flavoured stews, wild garlic pesto (made by my old friend Jennie) made
pasta delicious. Blossoming alexanders
provided flowers which we fried in tempura batter and leaves which I steamed
for greens. Wild sorrel and fennel added
savour to salads.
And at the end of all this foraging
and green eating, I was suffering from the runs… and completely unable to
pinpoint exactly which herbs had given me them.
So perhaps Mum and Dad were right
after all.
Saturday, 9 April 2022
An opportunity to stop suffering
Unfortunately,
the war in Ukraine has already started, so you are not being offered that
chance. However it is still possible to curb climate catastrophe. This month's IPCC report has announced that
through drought, rising sea levels, wildfires and massive storms, many millions
of people across the world will suffer famine and homelessness. Widespread wars
will ensue as countries compete for resources.
You are being offered the chance to do what you can to limit climate
catastrophe.
Have
a chat with your conscience and join Extinction Rebellion this week in London
as they show the Government how very much this issue matters to us.
Can
it be right to disrupt people going about their everyday work?
The
oil companies and the banks who finance them are keen for us to go on burning
fossil fuels so they can continue to screw the last few billion dollars out of
a dying planet. The last thing they want is for people to look up from their
daily routine.
However, the argument of Extinction rebellion is that the small amounts of disruption they are causing now are nothing compared to what is very soon to hit us as a result of climate catastrophe. Their purpose is to waken people to the threat of much greater disruption in the future.
Photo CFH - shows Claire and Rich with Claire's amazing banner
Friday, 1 April 2022
Lost time, Spring time, Mother’s Time
On Mother’s Day, we don’t go to church. Instead, I have decreed that my children spend the whole day worshipping me, their mother.
Sissinghurst is somewhere I have had in my sights for a long
time. I remember my friend Kathryn
coming back from there, beaming and full of praise for the delightful gardens,
designed by Vita Sackville-West. I too
wanted to glow with pleasure after a perfect day out.
But it is quite a long drive so we have never been.
However, as Mummyzilla, I put my foot down.
Perran and Carenza obeyed the three-line whip and arrived
the night before so that we could make an early start.
We had reckoned without the clocks jumping forward.
And without that wrong turn we took when the conversation in
the car got interesting.
I was beginning to fear that when/if we finally got to
Sissinghurst, there would not be enough left of the day for me to achieve my
full glow.
However, when we arrived, the misty lawns were swathed in
daffodils, snakeshead fritillaries, scylla, grape hyacinth and primrose in all
their pastel varieties. Each border put
forth its own cornucopia of spring blossoms and birds sang in the trees. Water
features bubbled quietly.
The effort had been worthwhile. We may have lost time, but somehow, in the
end we had arrived at the very heart of spring time.
Saturday, 26 March 2022
Power Cut
Due to the climate crisis, we’ve been told to expect the
break down of systems so I’ve given a lot of thought to what this might mean
and how to prepare.
When the St Albans area suffered a power cut the other
evening we looked out our window and wondered what was going on.
But I was ready with camping cookers, candles, hot water
bottles and even water purification tablets, in case the pumping stations were
affected and we needed to resort to our water butts.
The other essential thing you need in order to survive in a
crisis is a sense of community, so I grabbed a torch and knocked on the doors
of older neighbours. Having lived
through harder times, they already had emergency stocks of candles.
Before I had even knocked on the last door, the lights
stuttered back on, however, and the emergency was over. I snatched back my camping cooker and went
home.
We are still not sure what caused the power outage. But I think it was just a little reminder that
things will not always run smoothly as the world changes around us. So maybe we should keep our camping supplies at the ready and be prepared to share them.
photo - nicola-fioravanti-UrAKbpKnak8-unsplash
Sunday, 20 March 2022
Peaky Blinders Walk
Every weekday morning since March 2020 and First Lockdown, I have strode out of my house for a brisk two mile walk round the neighbourhood. I don’t wear earphones and I don’t do errands, I say hello to dogwalkers and joggers. It’s good for my health, both physical and mental.
I am amazed how much wildlife I see in the ‘burbs, but even
so, after two years, the ritual is a little weary.
I’m a big fan of Peaky Blinders and the new series inspired
me to enliven my tired routine by using the Tommy Shelby walk - head down as if
marching vigorously into a strong wind.
Okay, I was wearing a cagoule so it wasn’t quite as visually
striking as Shelby’s billowing great-coat…
And I had a bobble hat instead of a flat cap.
Unexpectedly, however, I spotted some things I wouldn’t
normally – with my head lowered to face the coming storm, I saw the places
where people had guerilla-gardened verges near their home. I appreciated the optimistic tete-a-tete
daffodils and the purple crocuses.
In reacting to the daffodils, I felt I should stay in character
as Tommy Shelby but was unsure whether he would fully have appreciated the blooms.
After long consideration, I adopted his gravelly voice and muttered
‘Look Arthur – effing flowers.’
Thursday, 10 March 2022
Birdsong - and how we killed poetry
Around a dozen of us who have been friends since our youth, and sometimes camp together, share a Whatsapp group.
It doesn’t have a name, but I call it the Annabel channel as
she is the founder.
Sometimes it’s very serious – articles about the history of
the Ukraine: sometimes we are taking our mind off life with trivia. Or, in this case, the beauty of the world
around us:-
Annabel:
I stand on the station platform and search for the birds
overhead belting out their messages every morning. Yesterday I stood right
underneath the loudest Great Tit I'd ever heard, hopping about in the tree
above me. So active while making so much noise!
Me:
I reckon there are 2 to 3 haiku there. Get cracking.
Mike took up the challenge:
Dazzled by birdsong:
I wait for the morning train.
Nearby, some Great Tits.
Me:
I really liked the first two lines, but the third sounded
weird.
Annabel has a go:
'Trainwaiting, workbound,
Soulsoothed by birdsong.
Treehigh, some Great Tits'
Annabel tests positive with
covid but gamely has another go at a haiku (priorities!)
'Train-waiting, work-bound,
Soulsoothed by birdsong, I seek
Tree-high, a Great Tit'
Mike has meanwhile returned
to the drawing board and comes up with his master work:
Waiting for the train:
stupid birds, what a racket.
Trod in a dog-turd.
Having succeeded in killing the poetry I retire smugly.
If there is any moral to be drawn from this ill-starred
literary venture, I think it is this:
Don’t try to include great
tits in a haiku.
Saturday, 5 March 2022
Gone Hog
In November, we took in a young hedgehog (blogged previously). When we found her in our garden, she was not
weighty enough to survive hibernation, so the objective was to help her put
some weight on and release her again.
We had done this successfully once before a number of years
ago.
It was more complicated than we remembered.
For a start, should we have taken her in at all? – with
warmer winters, there was a chance she would have survived without our help.
Plus, when you put a hedgehog in a pet cage, it stresses
them and their parasites grow in number.
I had brilliant hedgehog mentors in Esther who runs LondonColney Hedgehog Rescue and Jill who helps hedgehogs in St Albans.
We handled the hog as little as possible and did not make a
pet of her.
But when Esther gave her some anti-parasite injections, a
name was required for the records – Hermione.
That was the tipping point – we began to regard her as ‘our’
hedgehog.
We acclimatised her to winter temperatures in the garage,
then released her early last month. We
put her out in a snug straw-lined house with a tunnel entrance to block cats
and foxes.
We left food in a similarly protected hedgehog feeding
station.
We had been warned that although some hedgehogs come back
every night, others are never seen again.
Hermione turned out to be of the latter type.
It is quite possible she fell foul of one of the local foxes. I guess we’ll never know.
However, in our imagination, she is trundling along the
hedges of the nearby school field, snaffling beetles and generally leading the
life of a hog in clover.
http://londoncolneyhedgehogrescue.weebly.com/
Thursday, 24 February 2022
The passing of the cherry buds
On my morning yomp around my neighbourhood, I’ve noted the trees which have been blown down by storms Dudley and Eunice.
There are two separate places where cherry trees have been
uprooted. What struck me most was the
fact that they were packed with multitudes of rosy buds. Until the storm, they had been preparing to
burst forth in their full glory in the spring.
Even as the trunks lay beyond salvage, half across the pavement, the
buds were still undamaged and ready to blossom.
Those cherry trees had not known that they were about to be felled by
the wind.
A couple of days ago, we heard that Nigel’s much-loved uncle
had died very suddenly. He was still active
in life in so many wonderful ways. He
had shown no signs of approaching his end.
I guess the people who will be missed most are those who had
more blooms to offer. So we all must put
out our buds in hope each year and if we are spared to see them flower and
fruit, we should give thanks.
Friday, 18 February 2022
Green Roof
At February half term, we
have often visited Pascoe in Edinburgh.
Equally often, we have been
assailed by snow, sleet, icy winds, hail, freezing rain… you get the picture.
However, forgetful of these
drawbacks and Nigel, Carenza and I went to meet Pascoe half way, in York.
Not only did Pascoe turn up,
but also our old friends, heavy rain and icy winds.
We found ourselves very
interested in any attraction which could boast a roof.
And then, unexpectedly, roofs
became the focus of our visit.
At York Minster, we went on a
spell-binding tour inside the massive conical roof of the chapter house, all built
eight hundred years ago from green oak and pine, the beams braced against one
another in an ingenious design so that as they shrank and twisted with time
they would pull together into a stronger structure. At the joints, symbols were carved, showing where
the end of each timber should fit, like a gigantic flat-pack assembly project. The pegs which held it all together were
wooden too. Outside this forest in the
sky, there was even the lair of a peregrine falcon.
At the Merchant Adventurers’
Hall, more medieval wooden beams impressed us, and a labelled model of the roof
timbers appealed to the nurd in me.
At the end of the weekend, I
discovered I had taken more photos of the inside of wooden roofs than of my own
children.
But then, it really was not
photograph weather UNLESS we were under a roof.
Wednesday, 9 February 2022
Seismic blasts
On Friday, Nigel and I went
on our first outing since Covid.
It certainly wasn’t a 'date
night'.
We demonstrated as part of
Coastal Rebellion where over thirty actions were taking place simultaneously in
over twenty countries including Peru, South Africa and Argentina.
Oil spills are devastating
coastal wildlife, and so is seismic exploration.
But although, as I say, this
outing was not a date night, I did learn a lesson in husband management.
In order to mimic the
frequency and intensity of the seismic blasts, it was decided to blow a
vuvuzela.
But who would do the blowing?
A woman who is a teacher in
everyday life assigned Nigel the task: ‘Here’s a vuvuzela. Blow it every ten seconds.’
This job kept Nigel busy and happily occupied all afternoon.
I am in the process of
ordering a vuvuzela. Whenever Nigel
seems at a loose end or low in spirits, I shall utter the magic formula:
‘Here’s a vuvuzela. Blow it every ten seconds.’
And I’m sure he will perk up.
Although I’m not sure what
the neighbours will say.
For the full impact of an unleashed vuvuzela, watch this short video.
Thursday, 3 February 2022
When Birds Watch You Back
Last weekend,
it was the RSPB’s Big Garden Bird Watch – the biggest citizen science project.
In previous
years we have struggled to fit it in amid the bustle of a January weekend. This year, however, we were still in
isolation following Covid, and it seemed like the epitome of excitement.
We picked an
hour towards the end of the day when we knew the little chaps would be mobbing
our birdfeeders trying to consume enough calories to see them through a long
winter night.
We spotted most
of our regulars – blue tits, great tits, long-tailed tits, coal tits, dunnocks,
robins, goldfinches, woodpigeons and blackbirds.
None of our
more unusual visitors surfaced – the nuthatches, woodpeckers and goldcrests
must have appeared on somebody else’s entry.
However, the
species we saw most was our own doves.
And we also were not prepared for their reaction. When they saw us sitting in front of the
French windows, they came and watched us right back.
We could
only guess at their conversation,
‘The two
regulars are there – the old ones.’
‘Yes, wonder
if we’ll see any of the brightly-plumaged young ones today.’
‘Doesn’t
look like it – they must be in a different house today.’
‘That’s
always the way – we never see anything out of the ordinary when we do the Big
House Human Watch.’
Wednesday, 26 January 2022
A Good Time For Covid?
Nigel and I have been laid low by Covid, presumably the Omicron variant.
Since I have
been working in secondary schools and he has attended the odd meeting in
central London, this highly contagious variant did seem unavoidable.
Long country
walks are something we consider essential to happiness, but at the moment we
are confined indoors.
So I have
been consoling myself that if there was one good time of year to be trapped at
home, then this is it – ten dry, cold, overcast January days, with daylight
fleeting early.
The very
countryside has appeared dormant.
Yet as I have
begun to feel better, I can see how wrong I have been.
Whenever the
sun shows its face, I hear birdsong, led by our robins, but including a
swelling number of other species. Blue
tits are showing a great deal of interest in our nest boxes.
Our doves
have begun to vie for the best nest sites in our dove cote.
Each night,
foxes rend the air with their barks.
Even the
hedgehog which we have been fostering this winter seems to have no interest in
hibernating.
So when I
finally get the all-clear to leave the house, the first intimations of spring
will be awaiting me with open arms.
Video of Nigel feeding robin by Carenza
Blue tit photo by david
Griffiths on Unsplash
Thursday, 13 January 2022
Swift Response
If there’s one bird for me, then it is the swift.
If I am reincarnated, that's what I would opt to be.
They barrel around our summer skies in small flocks,
shrieking with delight as if our rooftops are their own personal Alton Towers. Life through the eyes of a
swift must look like one long arcade game.
But maybe being a swift is not such an idyll – every May
when they arrive back from Africa, they find it more difficult to nest.
Hundreds of years ago, they nested in vast ancient trees
which furnished plenty of nooks and crannies. However, as mankind has dominated the
landscape, they have used our buildings instead, colonising holes, cracks and
fissures.
But as our building techniques become better at sealing
every chink and gap, swifts find it harder to find a home. Numbers have greatly decreased and the swift
is now endangered in the UK. However, it
is not hard to offer help.
Newbuilds or extensions can have hollow swift-bricks built
in. Existing buildings can have nest-boxes
fitted under the eaves.
The church I attend, St Luke’s, doesn’t have much land, but
is currently planning a small wildlife garden. When we talked to Heidi from Herts and Middlesex Wildlife Trust , we discovered we had valuable vertical real estate in the shape of a North-East
facing wall, ideal for swift nest-boxes.
So we’ve ordered them now, in time to put up before
May.
Let’s just hope the swifts make those lovely excited
shrieks when they see them.
For more about helping swifts:
https://www.rspb.org.uk/birds-and-wildlife/wildlife-guides/bird-a-z/swift/
http://actionforswifts.blogspot.com/
https://www.swift-conservation.org/
photo by Vika Strawberrica, Unsplash
Tuesday, 4 January 2022
Getting on with it
Christmastide has always had the quality of being a magical island, rising above the drab grey seas of midwinter, twinkling with fairy lights and warmed by mulled wine. Even more so since the children grew up and left home - now it is a time when they return and we re-form the nuclear family we once were. We do the Christmas baking, read the Night Before Christmas together, watch old films, play daft games and go for endless muddy walks guided home by the glow of early sunsets.
Nowadays, as soon as the last child has left, without
waiting for the 5th or 6th of January, I take the
decorations down. I guess it draws a
clear boundary between the fresh start of the New Year and the precious island
of Christmastide, a country which has sunken below the horizon for now.
But next December, we shall set sail again, navigating
towards Christmas, guided by its winking lights and the hope that our children
will journey to be there with us once more.















